Well ... now or later!

I cant help but thinking that sometimes instead of having a tantrum and worrying over all that is happening around us, if it is not better to take a day to think through a response and not to go charging in, when you actually have the time to formulate a suitable and more strategic response. There is obviously such a thing as immediate reaction to a problem, or decision, or situation and although gut feel helps, it is often clear in hindsight that it was far better to have considered the problem and answered after a time, instead of giving a singular immediate response, which ends up being a response which results in a second comment or reaction to the situation.  Holding back a response to some is very difficult, because they need to vent the reaction or comment, as soon as possible, like it needs to come out, rather than waiting for a better time and place.  They are able to formulate the problem and are very fast in dissecting the important parts of it and then starting immediately towards the solution. They would believe that they then get going sooner towards to the end result, instead of waiting  for the time to rob them of swiftly dealing with events.  Others are more cautious with a response, so that they rather explore all the facts before heading off on a challenge.  They believe more in the motto of slow to anger and react and faster to a solution, because of clear thoughts and less emotions.  They prefer to de-clutter the problem from the emotive side and seek a carefully considered and measured response.  I think that there may be merit in both options, but which one to choose in a given situation, is the difference between silence which is not so "golden" and relief from a tense situation.