A road Map.

I am not sure that life does not follow the same scientific principle of,  "for every action, there is a complete and opposite reaction" - we can seldom make a decision in life, without a reaction occurring which changes our thinking and the way we live on a daily basis.  Perhaps the key is not to try so hard to map our life and to let it meander naturally, in the order and path that is destined.  There has to be a reason why you are in the place in your life that you find yourself now.  Life seems to comprise of times of meandering roads like a mountain pass going up and down and sometimes back tracking on itself and yet all the time slowly creeping to the top of the pass.  It has sharp turns and slow long turns  and we have to accelerate out of the turns sometimes and other times, really apply the brakes hard.  But this is not the only type of road that we meet in life.  Many times there is also a "t-junction" waiting for us and we need to go, one way or the other.  Which is more fun to traverse?  No one really knows the answer, except to say that perhaps the long winding road takes more out of us and keeps us locked in for a longer time, on a path that may not even be the right one, whereas the t-junction certainly gets us to the next decision and on to the path again quicker, even if it is perceived or viewed as wrong; sometimes it invariably results in us getting to another t-junction or windy road.  The T in the road is exciting and definitive and it has beginning and end whereas the windy road has more compromises and opportunity to contemplate.  Neither seems to be wrong it just depends at the time when you reach them.  The key is that both represent life and both represent a journey, so it is best to take them with the right things in your luggage and be well equipped.